My Walks of Life

the sky does not always blue..so does the life..

RAYA HAJI BAKERY

Macam biasa, bila nak raya baru la microwave oven jadi panas!kalau hari-hari biasa, bukannya tak nak buat pastries or cake, tapi takde sapa nak makan.harap tukang yang masak nye aje makan :).kalau kerja dulu, boleh jugak bawa ke klinik.staff boleh makan. Abang wady memang tak favorite to any dessert. cookies, cakes, pengat,flan,tart,kuih-muih or serawa semuanya tak berkenan ni.kalau masak,bukannya kata nak makan, nak jamah(rasa) pun kena sampai merajuk2 tukang masak ni,baru la dia rasa:)


Masa baru-baru kawin, selalu la juga makan hati sebab dia tak nak makan apa2 desserts.dia kata, dia tak biasa makan dessert dari kecik lagi.tak macam family kami, mama memang expert bab2 desserts ni.sebut aje apa.aneka roti pun boleh. cream aiskrim pun boleh buat.sebabnya, abah amat suka dengan yang manis-manis ni.sebut aje, pengat apa..semuanya abah suka.kadang-kadang siap buat permintaan lagi kat mama suruh masak itu ini macam tarts or pengat.Abangku??hmmm...seingatku sepanjang 5 tahun ni tak pernah langsung meminta aku masak apa-apa dessert.dia tak kisah.makan je apa2 ,tak komen pun.semua telan kecuali yang manis-manis dan western food(spagheti,lasagna)pizza, boleh tahan la jugak. ada sorang kawan cakap bertuah la suami tak memilih makan.tak suka desserts.tak macam suami dia.kalau dia masak kari pun, boleh comment sedap ke idak.siap kadang-kadang, suaminya yang masak kalau isterinya masak tak kena selera tekak dia.


sekarang ni, since dah tinggal rumah mama.best la.ada gang nak makan desserts. tu yang rasa bagai dipam-pam je badan ni sejak 5 bulan tinggal dengan mama.semalam, sebab nak pencetus musim baking :


  • mama buat biskut telur rebus dan biskut croquent-abang langsung tak rasa sekeping pun.mama pun dah faham selera abang.

  • aku masak hawaian supreme pizza.ni kali ke 2 buat.better dari yang 1st dulu.abang makan la 2 pieces.(kena insist)

  • tadi daH masak 2 biji chocolate cake.1 nak bawa ke kg kuala nau.birthday hajiroh raya haji ni.petang nanti nak buat topping.kalau rajin, nak buat decoration sikit.

  • petang ni mama nak masak biskut buah pala & tart durian-abah yang request.

esok, lepas zohor nak balik kuala nau sampai Selasa.


SELAMAT HARI RAYA HAJI.

GENUINE COURTESY ?


I ran into a stranger as he passed by,

"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye.


But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old.


Later that day, cooking the evening meal,

My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.

"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken


While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor,

You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed; "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."

He said, "Oh, that's okay. I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."


Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days? But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story?


Do you know what the word FAMILY means?

FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

OUR 5TH ANNIVERSARY

Pejam celik pejam celik, dah 5 tahun kami mendirikan rumah tangga.Betul la kata orang tua-tua, susah senang, pahit manis ditempuh bersama...,asam garam hidup berumah tangga pasti ada pasang surutnya.

Well, here are few vital achievements in our life, in the last 5 years :

  1. Abir Islami- 4 yrs +1 month old.
  2. Aufa Tasneem - 1 yr + 8 months old.
  3. Umrah (2nd October 2003)
  4. semi D single storey house (1st April 2006)
  5. move out from hectic Johor Bahru city (15 Sept 2004)
  6. freedom from credit card
  7. Job promotion from U41 to U44 (me) and from Junior Engineer to a Senior Engineer (abang)

So, on 24th Dec 06 we spent 1 day out dating in Kinta City, Ipoh. Kids were left with our maid, supervised by my parent. We had few shopping and we saw movie at TGV-my 1st experience in life!It was not a romantic movie thou -abang wants to see Curse of the Golden Flower:) http://movies.go.com/curse-of-the-golden-flower/d848777/action We never dating during our IN LOVE years. I remember the first and last moment where abang and I met(my eldest brother accompany me thou). It was at KLIA (28th May 2001) .I was on the transit flight from Kota Kinabalu to K.Terengganu. So, abang purposely flew from Johor Bahru to KLIA, just to see me after 6 years since we left school!And he bought a box of chocolate and a bouquet of red roses:) We had only about 20 minutes chat at Burger King.And, abang flew back to Johor Bahru.

Abang said, people in the flight were like looking abang with a grinn since he held those chocolate & roses in the cabin.no other luggage:) That was the expensive 1st and last date he ever spent on.We still learning to know each other these years...I LOVE YOU, MY DEAR ABANG:)

RESEARCH FUND

I really frustrated with yayasan perak, coz thet only gave me 1k for my research fund. I need rm20k please...!Anyone so generous out there to fund my research??Hee.So, I started sending letters to other party such as Exco Pendidikan UMNO, Ahli Parlimen MCA and also, Adun Pasir Panjang (MIC), Baitulmal and Welfare.Desperate nih.According to proposal I need to run the vision screening this January.no way I can start with only 1k.I can only buy a sheridan gardiner chart for that.I need to buy my own ophthalmoscope and retinoscope.my present set is already wear out.Look like I have to advance with my own money then :(

Equipment needed :

  1. ophthalmoscope -to check the eye retina (fundus)
  2. retinoscope - to determine the refractive error (power)
  3. lea chart - to assess visual acuity 1
  4. sheridan chart - to assess visual acuity 2
  5. cardiff card - to assess viual acuity 3
  6. trial frame
  7. trial lens

hmm, i wonder if i just loan most of the items from Hospital Teluk Intan??Good idea?

PICNIC

It has been already 11 days since the misfortune accident happened, yet our car is still not ready.so, for the past few days, I sent abang to work at 730am and pick him at 7.00pm.Kesian kat abang,these last 2 working weeks were really hectic and did tortured him a lot.he got less smiles on his face, few laughters and only several jokes cracked.well well, his responsible is getting heavier nowadays as co-ordinator engineer.I admit it, sometimes the load was too much.and he need a break!So pity with the kids, their dad is unable to entertain them much these days., but hey!! UMMI is here !! A so called full time mommy+student:) grinned...grinned.(don`t remind me of my masters progress,will you?? )
So, we spent the saturday attending wedding invitations..:), and sunday, is picnic day.Just to blizz abang away from work memory, as he already planned to do his officework on sunday at home!!thats ridiculous!I told him, "abang, your company only pays you when you work at the office but not at home, no one could replace your family time with any currencies.so, think about it."i let him in puzzle a second, and TARRAAA...! we set of to Teluk Batik beach.
End of the day, he told me.."you are right, no one could offer a what a family crave for life. thanks..."

HYUNDAI VS HONDA

Yesterday evening was the 1st time in my 11 years driving experience that I accidentally rammed on someone`s car.It happened so fast that I couldn`t remember from where was the Honda coming . After visiting one of our friend who will go hajj, I went to a photocopy shop, frame shop and post office. I knew I should take the safer junction which is a bit far, but I wanted to get home faster. So, that was when I stopped at the junction.I looked right: there was a motorcycle coming, I let him passed.I looked left, it was clear and I think without looking back to right I just crossed to right of the road and THUMP!! I hit a white Honda!Masya Allah:(

Amazingly, when I got out the car I saw the car was quite bad at the left back door.I thought my car which rammed on his car must be really bad then. But, upon turning back to look at our Hyundai ; it was pretty good.Only scratches along the whole bumper and mudguard with the plate number broke.

The chinese Honda driver asked me: Amacam? (cool and smile)
Me : Hmm, you nak I bayar you?or you want log a report? (shivereing)I call husband saya dulu.tunggu ya.

In 2 minutes, few man from the workshop people already arrived.Nobody contacted them.And made the situation chaotic with traffic began slowly with our car at the center of the road. Every body passed by slowered their car and looked``Hyundai yg salah tu.....``I heard the whisper.Hish!!Sibuknye.

Abang took half an hour to arrive. He is glad that no injuries.And he discussed with the Honda driver but he didn`t agree with abang suggestion that we solve the problem at workshop without police report. We offer to pay his car repair.But he refused and insisted police report.Well, then we waited for the police, which only came after an hour.

So, there was the photography session and police report.I was fined RM200.and my 45%NCB was gone.The police who took the report didn`t believe when he asked what part of my car was damage, and I told him that only the bumper and mudguard.He commented `HYUNDAI VS HONDA` and seems Hyundai won.I told him, it was not bad because I didn`t crossed the road fast since I already stopped at the stop sign.The Honda driver was the one who drive fast and didn`t notice me.Anyway, the rule is always support the driver who from the main road. Blame was put on me:(

WEll, in 3 days our car will be ready and once I got my car back,I shall not avoid the junction because I don`t want fear lingers me....

BALIK KAMPUNG

As usual, our monthly routine is visiting my mother and father in law in kuala nau, kulim.even it was a short balik kampung, but we sure to fill the minuts with precious moment together. so, yesterday all of us went to air terjun lata sedim and again the canopy walk.my mother IL never have the chances to get on the walk.at first she seems quiete afraid.Can tell from her pale appearance after walking at the 15m height!

What we really wonder along the walk is ``why didn`t the authority utilize the safety guards for the tourists, although they did provide the safety rail at the top of the trail. that is what typical Malaysian:) technology is 1st class, but the implementation is ?? class. what a waste?

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