My Walks of Life

the sky does not always blue..so does the life..

heated weekend

we got back to my hometown on saturday, aside the excitement of meeting beloved parent, we were rushing to the goats barn at backyard. the news of the 2 kids death last week did draw our concern so much.

was so pathetic ..we thought it was the other kid died, hoping not the cutest of all- named batik. but to no prevail..it was him. very sad thou. we rushed the 3rd sibling to the nearest vet when abang notice a gush of paleness in its mouth. the Vet shooked his head, saying it was already late. anyway, she injected anaemic jab and hemochus jab, later put him on sodium drip. as it was meant to be, the kid died on the treatment table. huhu..

"can you proceed with the post-mortem?" i suggested.

"sure, i`m quite sure this is caused by hemochus worm, the most dangaerous parasites for goats and cattles. one worm can suck 0.5ml per day. imagine if there were 100s of them?" she explained while her fingers reached for a forcep and scapel.

yes..her diagnosis was right. there were lots of worms inside the lining of its intestine. some were as big as the toothpick, i tell you. no wonder.

sunday was sizzling hot too, still I had to help abang to wrap-up all the other 5 kids into the car for hemocchus `s immunization. i felt my brain was heated up, felt like my thermostat was not functioning. later, at the evening both of us took panadol actifast. my head was excruciating aching. the plan to go back to abang`s hometown was called-off then, we set off to KL after maghrib. my headache was still bad all the way, had to stop few times for vomit episodes. i was caution to take more panadol, as i`m 3 days late :)
the head still aching this morning. had to cancel a plan and inform my supervisor. just got up from bed..feel quite better.

what can i say? was indeed a heated weekend for us.


these are the 4 best-friends ever : all of the kids deceased left behind the one with black head.

ii err san

our Abir will be speaking Mandarin very soon enough.

it will be included in their school syllabus aside from arabic language. it reminds me my old days thou. i was scholing in Anglo Chinese School (ACS) primary. was quite good in mandarin too. i loved the reading especially and of course spelling, more than english that time. my best friend was Ng Li Ping (wherever you are, thanks for helping me with the twisting tounge), sometimes i got better score than her. chinese seldom speaks mandarin at home, they rather speaks their own dialect like hokkien, hokchew and kantonis. those days, i was speaking mandarin with my classmates here and there. there were only 4 malays in my class, anyway. consequently, since Li Ping was on hokkien dialect, i adapted quite good with hokkien too. but not long few years, my mandarin was losing slowly. i had to followed my mom transferred to a malay school, and later i got into a boarding school which happened a religious school which when my language skills turned to arabic. talking about arabic, i love arabic too, as i love english. i don`t know why i didn`t like malay language that time. i shall blame on my bad grade, perhaps. i used to get B in malay compared the other two languages. did i tell you, about my PMR result? i got all A`s except malay language which is a big B. later i was very terrified and fed up with it and it did affected in SPM. i only got A2 in malay compared the other languages. anyway, no grudge. after 10 years now, i `m able to converse mandarin & kantonis at work, especially when it come with dealing with an ah soh (chinese aunties). i just love their surprised remarks upon hearing my kantonis accent. "waa...ni ker yi chiang hwa yi mei?" which means " wow..you can speaks mandarin is it?" i will normally reply " siu-siu ma, ah soh" which means " only little , auntie"


very well..., abang dear. perhaps i can gossips with abir in mandarin soon.

I wish

these past 2 days i`m doing locum in Home & Work Optometry, Shah Alam. i was almost to say no, when the owner offered but was convinced by a friend that it is a worth experience. what make it the practice is so unique? i wonder. soon, yesterday the moment i stood in front the practice, i got the answer straight away. i `ve never seen a private optom clinic fully-equipped with diagnostic equipements. i mean, all these years refraction and glasses are only the synonims to any optometry practice. but not this one, it is one of its kind, i would say.

here, there are tonometer, slit-lamp biomicroscopy and even a humphrey visual field analyser. (hey..got streamyx also ok?so, i `m blogging..).how i wish i have one like this. i remember back then chatting with a Msc friend on whos and where are the rest of our colleague. our batch year 2000 were only 52 people with 90% were Malays. ironically as it is, all of our chinese colleague are now at least own one optometry practice, to spell it out..none serves at the government hospital as most of the Malays graduate did, including me. to make it more heart-breaking.. their income might at least 10x from us. they are driving luxurious car and have huge homes.

i always wanted to own one too. but never had guts to try it out.why?maybe it is because none in my family have a business background, unlike the chinese. my brother who a bussniess graduated from denver, US is now a teacher himself. i remember few chinese friends whose parent own an optical shop even a chinese guy whose parent sells vegetables at market. i think it is all about the comfort-zone that malays graduates are yearning for. you know, the typical reason.."kerja dgn kerajaan ni terjamin masa depan, takkan kena sacked etc. bla bla. " i was thought the same too.

abang had been pushing me to start my dreamt optom clinic years ago when we`ve got married, especially when the times where we had to be separated, on the reason there`s no vacant post for me in in hospital SM when abang transferred to Manjung back then. i was nearly buy his idea, to quit and join retail optical shop for couple of years, before launching our own practice. but at a slim period., i got the transfer letter to T intan. so, the idea was off automatically. again the comfort zone being around hubby.

anyway, since yesterday i felt the flames again. I still have the wish...wish to have mine, eventhough after I got retired from this `comfort` zone.

Go Abir go!

yeehaaa..

it was indeed a victory day for all of us, sunbathing and cheering. not to forget those winning moments. it was Raudhah Adni`s Sport Day. our son particapted in 2 events : Lets build & Fix me up before you go! go! ,his team reserved the first & 4th place. abang and me participated in the parent and child events - a bouquet for ummi & build me up.charming as it was, we were champion for both!

initially we were sitting at the parent`s canopy, not long until group of parents started standing and approching the event court, subsequently blocking our best view plus a nigerian mommy who kept on walking to and fro in front us.hmm.., what else can i say?suddenly some guys shouted " duduk la wooii!!' harsh voice came from no where. yet, nothing changed. i guess, perhaps most of them were merely english spoken.i was telling myself.."hello...my kid is also participating,ok". anyway, later not to be bothered more, i decided to leave my seat, heading to the court`s side where series of amateur photographers lining, capturing their best shot of own kids.

though tired but awesome lah..

farah, kak cho, me and mak hajah-the cheer leaders!

rase mcm no 2 aje..

build me up champion.., smiling- next to Ir Dr. Fauzi (Exec Chairman Sek Adni)


go abir go!!

taek! taek! taek! taekwondo!! (taekwondo demo from kids)

our prizes of the day ..



finally..ehem ehem...i think the lady in purple is so familiar..hehe


shopping ache

i have much to say about the j card day yesterday.not only those squuezing, oopsing and sorrying.whats more? i spent 6 hours in the morning session, i had had had enough actually.. contented with 16 pieces for everyone in the family+ 1 tote CR bag, but had to return later at the evening with Farah. she just wanted to feel the 'air' in Jusco and managed to grab a piece of brown kurta. me for 2nd time?couldn`t say no to the 20% less on digital printing at Fotoflash. what did I get at the end? a pair of aching legs..and 17 pieces of RM10 vouchers.
(ps : got exception from Usrah too..)

Zzz

I might get up from the wrong side of the bed, still feeling so exhausted. Was yawning all the way. I keep on saying to myself that I`ll hit the surau 1st once reach the faculty, for a quicky nap. But somehow, it doesn`t turn out like I plan. .which now I am combating sleepiness with editing photos and blogging. (Hope it works!). I`m suppose to edit my scientific paper today!

Last weekend, Abang went for a 3D2N Mukhayyam (camping) in Bekelah, Kuantan. So, I had planned beforehand few activities for all of us. .that I`ll take the kids to the swimming pool, to Palestine roadshow and Jumble Sale, (organized by JIM Ampang Jaya) and Horse Riding at Titiwangsa Lake. At first, Abir was quite reluctant to follow as he wanted to play with Ali & Umar.And he kept on asking what is palestine is all about, that I persuaded him to. Not long, he was enjoying himself seeing the chaotic jumble sale bargain. My sis bought a punjabi outfit for only RM2! while I got Ju a silk Jubah for her mom and a textile silk for herself , both were total RM20. We then had a 45 minutes movie @ talk on Palestine where Abir thought it was a class session. He raised his hand few times to ask question at everytime the slide flashing photos children being killed and tortured brutally."Teacher, anak dia kena tembak senapang ke kena meletup?"he paused the Speaker seriously. The session ended with Abir won one of the Lucky draw:)


Although it was almost late for preparing lunch(Farah was suppose to cook curry that day!), had to keep my promise, they wanted horseriding dearly. "Only 2 rounds, okay?" and they nodded joyfully. Later, we had our lunch at 2pm that day.



Very well, I am now ready for the day!

The wrap up

Guess I shall call it a wrap up for the 2008 KL Book Fair. Had my 2nd visit today..felt so amused finding an Optometry book that discounted up to 90%. The typical price for any Optometry books were at least RM150 each. But today, this particular APD booth sold it only at RM15! (the normal price was RM278).Well, Optometrists.., please be jealous. It`s real.


These were all the books I chosen this year. They will join their friends in our book rack, Didn`t they say the more is the merrier?

Childrens showcase,


1st row : Disney children encyclopledia (24 vol), I wonder why (24 vol), Science Library (10 vol)

2nd row : Grolier young knowledge (12 vol), Words words words (4 vol), My First Quran, Baby Play , etc (just to name a few-their favourites)



3rd row : What to expect (3 vol), didik anak cara rasulullah saw, anakku hebat anakku soleh, discipline without spanking etc

As usual, this little gal must sneak in everytime she hears the camera flash!

What a day

I just simply love the day. .

  • I just came back from Sitiawan, gave mama a big hug and set off to Teluk Intan, updating the nursey progress, it was satisfying though had a tiring 3 hours drive.
  • My long-lost friend, Azima is now a blogger. She is in Dresden, Germany.
  • I`ll having a “bookworm outing” at PWTC with my friend, Junaidah tomorrow during lunch hour.
  • I have completed my scientific proceeding paper write-up, though soon will have lots of corrections from my supervisor.

I have nothing to complain. Alhamdulillah.

Books?

I almost caught for the 3rd time by those Grolier fellow during my visit to KL Bookfair on Friday. It is only the matter of time. The fellow stopped me when I was just about to leave the fair. I definitely will fall for their offer if I had a 10 minutes chat.Phew! We promise to finish all the 8 sets we have. Anyway, I have to satisfy with only 4 books, as compared last year. But, I`m not worry as I `m going for a 2nd visit next week with Abang.
It was quite a surprised that I picked a novel together with 3 others, which are cook book and 2 story books for the LOUD kids. It is AYAT2 CINTA by Habiburrahman. I`ve been pushed to read this novel since 2 years ago by my colleagues! I resisted then until now. Hey, I`m not a novel fan. The last time I read a novel when I was in Form 3! Yes, I still can recall the book. It was Laila Azwa Gadisku. Heee:) I stopped ready any novel when I joined the Science stream, which makes me a so `factful' reader. I read journals, anatomy, biochemistry and optometry books which fulled with eyes stuff.
I shocked Abang when I told him that I bought AAC. He shook his head all the way home mumbling that have I lost my mind? I said, I am only taking my friends challenge. Well well, that evening he skimmed the novel, and without anyone noticing, he already finished reading it at midnight. He then gave 5 credits to the author.Hey!!That`s unfair. Now, its my turn to digest the novel..but to no prevail, I only manage to read at chapter 3 with sigh:) We went to Angah`s house in Temerloh yesterday, his son got minor head accident. That contributes to my reading slowness.Besides, I was busy cooking the dishes for Aufa`s birthday. heee!Enjoy.

Dear Aufa,

You`ve been such a sweet and loving daughter all these years. You are 3 years old today... We love you so much. We can`t blame Abang Abir for being so envy of you. First is because, you are still the youngest at the age of 3 years old, practically still our baby. He already got the title abang at the age of 2+. Yes, we do treat you like a baby most of the times, including kakak Ju. Secondly, you were fully-breastfed (formula milk-free) during the 1st 2 years. Lucky one, Wan always say. Thirdly, Abang always have to win you in almost ways. Insya Allah, God will grant us your younger bro/sister. Just be patience, okay.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY! MAY ALLAH BRINGS HAPPINESS TO YOUR LIFE.AMIIN.


Mak Anjang bakedthis cake (sponsored bySmiley Cakes) Choc chip cheesecake.

Joyful neighbours and cousins


Special pose, while waiting friends, my baby just love posing.

fried meehoon, soto, fried chicken, nuggets, wedges, fries, cocktail jelly

Audrey (Ah Chet), Aufa`s bestest friend (rival too)

Wee...!

Unwrapping the gifts : V tech game from us, barbie doll from Ethan, Stationery from Nabihah, building blocks from Ah Chet, barbie doll bag fron Nabila, cute bag from Achik, Daim choc from Balqis.

THANKS TO ALL GUESTS!!

Fitna


The film contributes serious fitnah to Islam. I think Geert Wilders had gone beyond the limit. I played the film again and again, to be able to digest the message. Its like someone stabbing your heart coldblooded. Every muslim must feel the same way I felt. I have lots to say, but lets share some :
    • The film pop- up the QURAN verses with its direct meaning. Where as, true muslim knows that understanding quran is not like reading a book. It needs to combo with quran translation (kitab tafsir). There are lots of things to consider. I`m not quran expert thou, but thru usrah session , we discuss tafsir quran too. To intepret any verse, we need to know the `asbabul nuzul` (the cause) of each surah. And there are strict steps must to be obeyed for those who translates the Quran.

    • It was a one-sided story. Which is stressed that a muslim is the killer, and the others are the victims. Well, what about all those story of muslim victims? Anybody seen pictures how muslims were tortured and killed? It really could tear our heart apart. We don`t keep grudge. Because we believe in the life of hereafter. But, I believe the family concerned surely couldn`t forgive.

    • It only captured only part of/ few words said by the khatib, where we were blinded by the exact khutbah text as a whole. This is very similar, when media is used as a propaganda, especially during the election.

    • It abused children in the film, to attract people how muslim`s children been taught during early years. As a catchy element, I guess.

    It did achieved its mission to strike muslim`s sensitivity. Indeed, it invites muslims to pay back. Which I am not favour either. This is because : Islam means PEACE. Wallahu A`lam.

    Somehow, this is what the Dutch Government's reaction to Wilders' film :
    News item 27-03-2008 ,Prime Minister Jan Peter Balkenende has reacted to the film Fitna that MP Geert Wilders has released on the internet on 27 March.
    Prime Minister Jan Peter Balkenende
    :

    'On behalf of the Dutch government, I would like to respond to the online film by Mr Wilders.
    The film shows images of violent acts and holds Islam and the Koran responsible for them. The government condemns such acts and those who commit them.

    The film equates Islam with violence. We reject this interpretation. The vast majority of Muslims reject extremism and violence. In fact, the victims are often also Muslims. We therefore regret that Mr Wilders has released this film. We believe it serves no purpose other than to cause offence. But feeling offended must never be used as an excuse for aggression and threats. The government is heartened by the initial restrained reactions of Dutch Muslim organisations.
    Muslims, Christians and people of other convictions can easily live together in peace. The problem is not religion, but misuse of religion to sow hatred and intolerance. That is why we are calling for respect for everyone's deepest convictions.
    We are aware of the concerns and the sentiments about this film in the international Muslim community. We have recently spoken with many people at home and abroad to promote mutual understanding. We will continue to follow this course.
    The Dutch government stands for a society in which freedom and respect go hand in hand. Such a society demands dedication and commitment. We oppose extremism. Anyone who breaks the law is dealt with firmly. Let us solve problems by working together. Let us reach out to others and build confidence and trust. Let us conquer prejudice. We shall surely succeed.'

    Intelligence vs Faith

    I am clueless. 10 years ago, while I was in the midst of completing my degree, Sufiah Yusuf was only 13 years old - a genius prodigy in Oxford University. Yet, it is crystal clear that no matter what it is.. faith (iman) is the vital component of all.
    This heartbreaking news is a lesson to be learnt for all of us. Intelligence would never mean anything without true faith to the Creator, Allah. For us, it does strenghten our mission to provide our children with islamic education, not only to ensure they have a soleh environment..but to equip them with faith & taqwa to face the true world.
    Today, we are so delighted and glad...We pray and hope may Allah grant happiness to our offspring in the world and hereafter.Amin..
    P/S : this link contains 18SX

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