this is first time for me of having confinement away from mom`s supervision. ooh, not fully i mean. mama did came over for 2 weeks., and my grandmom came 1 week earlier. mama went home last wek already so it`s been a week plus now. facing the rest of confinement days independently. not bad, after all. i did have someone who came to help out with sweeping (which is a no no to any berpantang lady), mopping etc house chores which of those mama reminds me many times not to do. ops! i`d actually termenyapu twice! cant resist, having a hubby whom happened to be someone who loves to see things in organize and tidy. and me myself whom grown-up by Abah`s rule as well. so..not to blame anyone for my foot-ache. the helper also comments that i walk more than i rest.nasib baik rumah ni kecik aje. once a while when she did`nt turn up, my routine is as usual : preparing breakfast, laundry, bathing Mumtaz & Aufa, folding the clothes, cooking for lunch. of course i did bertungku twice a day, which mama told DH to get it done early in the morning before he left to work and right after he reaches home. i like bertungku ..why? aside from the heat, that`s only perfect time where i get for myself- rest and later sometimes doze off :).ooh, and i like nursing Mumtaz too.also time for time-off as well. looking after the baby is fine, no problems..her day is sleep, feed, boop, wee, cry, sleep, feed, boop. piece of cake!
the difficulties rise up only when i have to attend to Aufa`s too. you should know how a 4 year old mischievious acts..? kejap2 nak pegi rmh Ah Chet la...nak suruh ambik toys kat ats wardrobe la, nak ajk teman main barbie.com, main mak2 la etc. baby besar ni.banyak la songeh nye, ye dak? but eehh!!, she helps me a lot too.she knows what are the things i need when the baby need a diaper change, she will get them all for me : diaper, drapolene cream, latex mattress, wet cotton ball. and she can lay out the items when i want to bath Mumtaz too.everything done include pelita chimney utk tuam baby pun dah ready, plus she can matched mitten & booties with the selected shirt.cuma tak digincu jek lagi mumtaz tu dibuatnye. bedakkan & sapukan myk semua tip-top. oooh, she loves her sister more than her doll. but there was once in a while during night hours, when the baby cries loudly..she will say " aufa rasa tak suka la baby ni, dia bising mlm2" or when i couldn`t attend to her needs coz i was nursing the baby, she will grumpily say she don`t like mumtaz then too.jeles..
tido ajer..
thank you mama
abir? he`s a big brother now. care no more to those simple2 things, or else if he does..his dad surely get to his nerves for sure. ank sulung la katakan! banyak kena dgn mak ayah.DH says. macam my brother, ancho pun. but, amazingly.. sesiapa jadi eldest ni is awesome. tak dpt dibandingkan uniknya. i admit that. our abir too. although abir at first was quite reluctant to go to other school than Adni, he could take it bravely. i even not happy that we had to register him to a normal school. he got thru the new situation well.we didn`t register him to Adni since we are pretty sure to move to K Kinabalu in February. later when i got this transfer.. i asked DH then whether to get him back to Adni. but somehow we thought he is meant to be schooling in normal school. we see it positively.even we ourslves wanted him so much to go to Adni in the first hand. who knows that i finally could get the transfer?its like a magic and dream came true. if i knew it, he is definitely there in Adni. so, i believe there`s blessing behind everything. so, we decided to keep him in the school, insya Allah he`ll be just fine. now, he even like his present school rather than Adni. when i asked him why? the answer is simply "ada kantin besar, padang besar, pakai kasut putih mcm org besar"
senyumla sikt abi nye.......
bread and peanut butter, cereal..quickly breakfast eh
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2:46 PMGreat family pictures. Cool...
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Salam 'Ain,
4:22 PMYour family is beautiful! Alahai comel nyer baby besar tuh...hahahahahhahahaha....
You still bertungku ya? lots of people, sadly, have no longer faith in the traditional ways of getting healthier and better, hope this way will never be lost in this scary globalisation.
Eh, tapikan, kenapa tak leh menyapu? adakah menghalau rezeki?
Keep posting!
abir sekolah lain?? tak tau ponnn
8:40 AMkak, kuatkan semangatmu..mmg taleh menyapu kak..kak nak guna tak maid hujung minggu tu? dulu sy penah nyapu bleeding byk balik..
sy dulu mak jaga seminggu gak..tp mlm mak ada la siang dia keje..cuma pepagi man tolong panaskan tungku dulu + mak buatkan simple lauk before dia keje
bila sy hadapi kepenatan yg amat sgt dengan kerja, jam teruk! ( sampai kaki menggigil), karenah anak-anak dll, sy mesti ingat betapa susahnya lg org di palestin..dugaan kita ni apalah sgt..
Salam N, dah sihat? Pengalaman Cik bela anak pantang sendiri semasa melahirkan afiq. Bertiga beranak aje kami d Kuantan, terkonteng2. Hari2 makan gelama masin bakar dengan nasi putih. X berani sampailah arwah atok ihsan dan mama datang lebih kurang sebulan lepas tu bila dia kata dah boleh makan ayam, kari dll. Malam tu jugak beli nasi ayam. Nikmatnya!! tapi sekali pun x pernah jerang air atau masak.. Milo faruk malamnya uncle man buat masuk freezer pas tu rendam dalam air panas.Afiq pulak menyusu badan dan minum air mineral pot. Syukurnya ada jiran datang tolong, setiap hari.. (bayar la..)Bekas pengasuh faruk datang bantu tapi tak nak bayaran.. Putus saudara kalau nak bayar..mana mreka yang baik2 ni pergi ya? Agak rilek juga.Di rumah dengan baby Afiq saja masa tu, Faruk di hantar ke rumah pengasuh..Bertunku tetap dibuat.Orang pahang yang ajar pulak. Siap minum air inai lagi.
11:31 PMMaaf ya, nak komen juga pasal Adni dan sekolah biasa..What do you measn reluctant to have abir in normal school? Teruk sangat ke normal school tu? Don't 4get ya anak2, bila kita dah senang sikit kita mula lupa.. Pak2 menteri , para sarjana, doktor dan sbgnya yg ada sekarang, i believe they started from normal sch. Look at you, what are you now, don't you start from a local govt school? Personal opinion, abir is not only brave but he is is wiser in choosing his school. Don't get me wrongly, dear..
fakhzan,
1:31 PMberpantang ni bukan aje dr segi makan, mcm2 termasuk ngarut2.idak pulak tnya kenapa tak boleh sapu.i tak tahu pun tak boleh.my neighbour yg tegur.maslhnya dah nampak biskut berterabur dpn mata.nak tunggu hubby sapu, kena tunngu lagi 6 jam baru dia balik.asalkan takde yang syirik, i ikut aje la pantang2 tu.
farra,
akak tak pulak bleeding.syukur tak jd apa2. mmg ada maid yg dtg tl buat kerja2 berat. dah 5 kali dia dtg.byr gaji hari.u are right about dugaan kita ys seciput ni.
chik,
saje je kali ini tak balik sitiawan pantang.nak try pantang sendiri sbb ingatkan ada maid blh tlg.tup2 lari lak..,syukur ada wan dan mama. no offence.maksud kami reluctant tu.. sbbnya kalau kat adni, dia tak pyh nak shuttle dgn van ke sekolah agama, then abih sekolah agama kena naik van lak ke taska.kat adni, lepas abis school..terus je stay situ ada daycare sampai wady/chor amik.compound school dia lbh selamat, sbb lebih kecik, dan indoor concept. selain tu ada tbh nilai :swimming class, ratio murid guru rendah, air cond, english-islamic medium, daycare in school block. itu sbnrnya concern kami: safety. al maklumlah abir tu hyper-active kata org.wady yg plg berat nak htr dia ke sekolah biasa.ann ok je, sebb tu awal2 lagi masa kat sitiawan kami daftr dia kat acs,walaupun ada je sek private agama kat manjung.tp sitiawan lain, balik sekolah kita boleh fetch sendiri..blh siap lunch kat umah,then kita gak hantr pulak ke sek agama.kl?idakla mandang nak buat gitu kalo dah tpt keje mkn 1jam+ ke sekolah anak2, sbb jem.blk keje pun jem, kurang2 kul 7mlm br sampai umah.in fact ann bangga le boleh ok dlm education yg berasaskan elementary school government.bangga le jd ex-acs. lgpun, kalo sek biasa senang dpt masuk sek asrama nanti.then, boleh apply univ tempatan.scholarship sume blh dpt kalo excellent.tak penahnye ann expect too high kat dia.i believe and aggree dgn chik yg pendidikan anak2 depends kpd parent, bukan semata2 ats teachers atau jenis sekolah.bdk sek agama pon ada yg tak elok perangai.sumenya bermula dr rumah, ye tak. ikutkan,ann lagi la suka bila htr ank ke sekolah biasa, tak pyh byr yuran bulan2 ratus2 lagi.hehe:)
Salam... my humble oppinion .. not bad at all, the helper, the pantang rules, Abir to 'PERMATA'.... with Wady's help and Aufa and the baby... hey I can say... NOT BAD AT ALL..... alhamdulillah... tok sah le banding apa2 yg kita lalui dgn org lain... sebab semua org ujiannya tak sama...perjalanan hidupnya TOTALLY DIFFERENT dgn kita, rupa pun ALlah kasi jadi lain2 kan!... Let's face our life with dignity and great hope...for Jannah is our final destination.
7:57 AMNak tahu anak berjaya ke tidak... tunngu kita mati nanti la ye tak?.. masih ingatkah dia pada kita.. atau adakah kita menderhakai mereka sebelum mereka menderhakai kita....
All the best... tinggal 2 minggu je nak abis pantang yg common... or 70 hari lagi utk pantang Kacip Fatimah.... kui kui kui....
Kak Chor part pregnant and beranak memang suka... part dalam pantang... setakat ni penuh dugaan.... memang thrill. Tu yg make me crave for moreOOOOOOOO ... he hehhhh
Boring ke?... Kalau boleh Kak Chor nak amik unpaid 2 bulan lagi adalah...Jgn boring.... byk benda boleh buat... buat stock susu.... ajar aufa baca qirraati .. ajar aufa baca "Bacalah Anakku.... ke Peter and Jane ke... most of my kiddies dapat chance utk bermesra dan belajar membaca time dlm pantang ni lah... sebab Mommy dia full time at home...and lebih relax kecuali Uthman... time tu Mommy havoc dgn Qaisarah .... : (
Tak leh tido siang.... org dalam pantang tak serupa dgn orang tak pantang... or orang yg qiyam... we sleep or baring rehat when the baby sleeps or we PUMP kan!... Unless we have a solid night-sleep-like-a-rock!!!! Tak pe... you judge it for yourself...
congrats dapat baby baru...:)
7:16 PMTQ :)
11:03 AMkak cho,
4:46 PMyou`re certainly right:)
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